He just NOT that into you...

We have all been there a time or two (and maybe for some even more) when you just can't understand the guy your crunching on. You super analyze his actions... make stupid actions of your own... and somehow the ending is not what you pictured. BUT in a weird way the result you expected. Tonight I saw "He's just not that into you." This movie speaks VOLUMES... to the world and to me. It hit everything so dead on because nothing was candy coated. Which I totally love/hate about the movie. Although at the end they still gave it that "ump" that makes it a romantic comedy.

Nonetheless the movie was dead on. One of my favorite parts of the night was the older ladies behind me who would make noises every time something "surprising" would happen. I heard a lot of "no he didn't", "oh my.." , "she's going to what" and "don't do it." Of course it was all clouded with laughter. It killed me how surprised these ladies were.

I am sure the things learned from this movie will not be learned material for long because no matter how much it hurts to get "blown off" there is nothing that can describe the feeling you get when he does call you back.

Most the time I am SO tired of going to this and that... just on the chance that I might meet someone there. You never do... well I never do. Nevertheless I always talk myself into to going or doing it one more time. Its a vicious game that I don't even know the rules to and if I did they would be in a different language anyway.

Finding that someone and getting married is a true miracle. You need all forces on your side. There is no rule book, there is no quick fix, there is no magic pill. There is nothing but being yourself.